Managing anxiety. Eating a large portion of food in a short time, especially food with a lot of carbohydrates, can have a calming or sedative impact on our bodies.
We eat to calm down, but then the guilt and shame about bingeing, as well as worries about gaining weight, leads to more anxiety. And then the cycle continues.
Why treating anxiety is important
Anxiety can be a trigger for binge eating, and it’s important to treat the underlying states that create bingeing. Binge eating can be a way of managing anxiety, albeit one that is ultimately more harmful than helpful.
Not only is it important to address anxiety for psychological relief, but there are also physiological benefits as well. Harvard Health states: “Evidence suggests that people with anxiety disorders are at greater risk for developing a number of chronic medical conditions.”
Some of the common medical problems that may be related to anxiety include:
- Respiratory Conditions, such as asthma and COPD
- Gastrointestinal Conditions, such as IBS and ulcers
- Heart Disease
- Substance abuse and addiction
Why am I so anxious?
Anxiety is a response to a situation, or to thoughts and beliefs that cause fear and worry. Some researchers believe that trauma, child abuse and neglect, poverty, and other life experiences may make some people more susceptible to anxiety.
Others believe that some people are born with a central nervous system that processes things differently and that people with this type of nervous system reach a level of saturation more quickly. It takes less of a trigger to create anxiety.
When most people get anxious their stress hormones return to their pre-stress levels in 20 minutes. The symptoms of anxiety resolve as their hormones subside–unless a person has an anxiety disorder. For anxious people, the return to previous levels is outside the normal limits and can linger for two hours or more, so symptoms of anxiety are present most of the time.
What steps can I take?
One way you can manage anxiety is to challenge thoughts such as these:
- What if I never lose weight?
- What if that person doesn’t like me?
- What if I can’t pay my mortgage?
- What if things never change?
Those are all “what IF” fears about the future, and they cause anxiety in the present. That means you end up being scared about some future event that is not actually happening.
The antidote is to stay with “what IS” and only consider the present reality and what you know to be true right now. When you stay with that, you will be calmer and more at ease, and less likely to turn to food. That sounds like:
- I’m working hard to address the reasons I turn to food
- I don’t know what that person thinks of me. Let me think about what I think of them.
- I can pay my mortgage now, and if I have trouble in the future I am resourceful and will come up with a solution
- I am continuing to evolve and I can create changes in my life
Words are powerful and are more helpful in resolving anxiety than the temporary solution of binge eating. When you reassure yourself, your anxiety will diminish, and you’ll feel calmer and better able to deal with various aspects of life.
If you would like more information and guidance about breaking free from binge eating, please join my Facebook community and get tips on how to escape food obsession and guilt and create a life of freedom, liberation and self-love.
Nina Savelle-Rocklin, Psy.D. is a psychoanalyst, author and radio host specializing in binge eating disorder. She is the author of The Binge Cure: 7 Steps to Outsmart Emotional Eating and Food for Thought: Perspectives on Eating Disorders, and co-editor of Beyond the Primal Addiction. She hosts The Dr. Nina Show radio program on LA Talk Radio.