Binge Eating vs Emotional Eating

Annabelle said she'd binged on cookies after a tough day at work. Sheโ€™d eaten six cookies.

Bethany also reported bingeing on cookies. How many cookies did she consume in that binge? A whole box of Oreos and part of a second. At least sixty cookies. 

Although both women thought theyโ€™d binged, Annabelle had done some emotional eating and Bethany was the one who actually binged.

Binge eating and emotional eating are terms that are often used interchangeably. Letโ€™s โ€Œlook at emotional eating vs binge eating to understand what these two terms actually stand for and why you should care about the distinction.

Letโ€™s start with what emotional eating is.

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What is Emotional Eating?

To have a clear grasp of the distinction between binge eating vs emotional eating, let us first define what they are. Emotional eating as the term suggests, is eating in response to your emotions.

Sometimes, we want to avoid our emotions or we donโ€™t know how to respond to them, so we turn to food. Emotional eating means eating to change the way we emotionally feel, rather than to assuage physical hunger.ย For instance:

Have you ever felt a sudden urge to eat ice cream after a disappointment or a breakup? (We see that happening in movies all the time).  Itโ€™s because we often seek comfort when weโ€™re upset, sad and feel lonely. Creamy foods like ice cream are associated with comfort and soothing.

This is just one example of emotional eating. The reasons behind emotional eating go way beyond this. At night, you might turn to food because you feel bored or lonely. You might suddenly want to eat while reading a book or watching a TV show. You may wander into the kitchen after dinner, even though youโ€™re not hungry.ย 

In each case, there is a situational trigger, and food is a way of coping. If youโ€™re lonely at night, food can symbolically fill a void. Reading or watching TV can activate uncomfortable feelings associated with the book or TV show.

Eating can give you something to do other than โ€˜beโ€ with yourself and potentially unpleasant thoughts and emotions. It feels as if youโ€™re triggered by food, but youโ€™re actually triggered by some thought, situation, conflict, or emotion.ย 

Emotional eating is not a clinically diagnosable eating disorder. Itโ€™s an umbrella term that refers to using food for reasons other than because we are physically hungry. If you eat when youโ€™re stressed, bored, angry, or upset, that is a sign of emotional eating.

Is Binge Eating the same as Emotional eating?

Binge eating is a clinically diagnosable and treatable eating disorder. Binge eating disorder is the most common eating disorder, impacting nearly three million people in the United States (ANAD website) alone.

The true number is likely much higher since many people struggle with binge eating donโ€™t realize they have a treatable condition. They often think they lack willpower or control or think theyโ€™re food addicts.

Here's a video that sheds some light about emotional eating:

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What is Binge eating?

Binge eating is also a way of coping with emotions and internal conflicts but it involves a greater amount of food, along with more self-recrimination and shame. People binge for many reasons, including denying, avoiding, or enacting painful or upsetting thoughts, emotions, and conflicts.

Food is used as a source of comfort, distraction, or to numb or express pain, anger, anxiety, or anything uncomfortable.

The clinical diagnosis of bingeing means the behavior occurs, on average, at least once a week for a minimum of three months (itโ€™s usually more like years). People who binge often experience high levels of shame, feelings of guilt, embarrassment, and disgust.

How do you know itโ€™s Binge Eating?

Here are a few signs you can look for to know if youโ€™re binge eating:

  • Eating a large amount of food in a short period of time  
  • Eating past full, sometimes even to the point of physical pain
  • You can't stop thinking about food.
  • You avoid social gatherings because you canโ€™t trust yourself around food.
  • Sometimes it doesn't matter what you're eating; you just can't stop
  • You feel shame, guilt, and remorse afterward

Should you be worried about emotional eating?

While itโ€™s okay to rely on food once in a while for comfort or distraction, if itโ€™s a habitual response and causes mental anguish, itโ€™s a problem.

If you frequently turn to food without even savoring the taste and you often think something along the lines of, โ€œWhatโ€™s wrong with me? I canโ€™t stop!โ€ then your behavior needs your attention.ย 

Itโ€™s important to know that food is not the problem. Itโ€™s the solution to the true problem, which is whatever is bothering or upsetting you. 

Ask yourself โ€œWhat am I feeling right now?โ€ Is it anger? Is it sadness? Is it loneliness?

The only way to get rid of emotional eating is to find new ways of responding to yourself instead of turning to food.

Binge eating vs Emotional Eating?

By now, you have a good idea on the difference between binge eating vs emotional eating. You know that โ€œemotional eatingโ€ is an umbrella term for any problematic eating that relates to emotions. When food is the medium to cope with the difficulties of life, emotional eating comes into play.

Binge eating disorder is a form of emotional eating. Yet, emotional eating may or may not be classified as binge eating disorder, which is a specific and extreme form of emotional eating.ย 

Hope for Emotional Eating

If you struggle with food, you may feel hopeless, embarrassed, and worried that youโ€™re never going to feel โ€œnormalโ€ around food. Itโ€™s important to know that you learned to respond to yourself by using food to deal with upsetting emotions, or even as a way of celebrating.

Itโ€™s a learned coping strategy and the good news is that you can learn a new way. When you find new ways to identify why youโ€™re eating, instead of focusing on what youโ€™re eating, and when you create healthier responses to your emotions, youโ€™ll stop emotionally eating for good.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Welcome to the FAQ section on binge eating vs emotional eating. Understanding the differences between these two behaviors is crucial for identifying and addressing the underlying issues affecting your relationship with food.

In this section, weโ€™ll answer common questions to help you gain clarity and take the first steps toward healthier eating habits.

4. How can I differentiate between emotional eating and binge eating?

Emotional eating involves consuming food in response to feelings rather than physical hunger, often as a way to cope with emotions like stress, boredom, or sadness.

Binge eating, on the other hand, is a more extreme form of emotional eating, characterized by consuming large quantities of food in a short period, accompanied by a loss of control and intense feelings of guilt and shame.

5. Can emotional eating lead to binge eating?

Yes, emotional eating can sometimes escalate into binge eating, especially if the underlying emotional issues remain unaddressed.

When food becomes a primary coping mechanism for dealing with difficult emotions, it can spiral into a more compulsive and damaging pattern of behavior, leading to binge eating disorder.

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Dr. Nina Savelle-Rocklin is a renowned author and podcast host and one of the nationโ€™s leading psychoanalysts known for the psychology of eating. Her signature message of, โ€œItโ€™s not what youโ€™re eating, itโ€™s whatโ€™s eating โ€˜atโ€™ youโ€ has resonated with hundreds of thousands of listeners from around the globe in 40 countries. As founder of The Binge Cure Method, she guides emotional eaters to create lasting food freedom so they can take back control of their lives and feel good in their bodies.


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